What Dangerous People Say & Do

In partner relationships, abusers give red flags. They confide in you immediately to rush intimacy. They “love bomb” you & move in quickly. Their conversation is “off.” Sociopaths/Psychopaths are child like emotionally and cannot change. Red flags are their talk on food, houses & status. They’re materialistic and you may be thrown off on how smoothly they speak. What they say to others on a first meeting deviates from the norm. You may think, “why would she tell them that,” since its not normal conversation. Abusers do this as a bid for sympathy to move onto the next stage of manipulating you. Once you’re hooked, abusers start making odd asides about you. Such as, “you’re the smartest one in your family.” This is a passive aggressive way of putting down you and your family. Abusers become superior over you; using their speech to talk about their education, the money they made, the house they want. Little jabs & then gaslighting you into isolation so they can control you. You’re eating what they want, living where they want, seeing only the people they want you to see. Watch this short video by Jordan Peterson -How Narcissistic Psychopaths Fool You.